No worries Stevie.
Has your car got the wiring loom plug installed?
If it has, you may be able to buy a plug with covered tail wires attached that plugs into the car's wiring loom connector.
After fitting that, you then need to mount a connector for the trailer wiring plug to plug into.
Two ways to do that:
1) connect up a long tail with a female plug on the end, and just keep this in your boot (trunk) and shut the lid on it when the trailer is connected;
or 2) run the cable tail through a grommet in your boot or anywhere that's convenient to a plug attached to the outside of the car near the tow ball.
If doing the second way, try for a grommet that's as high up the car as possible. The one in the bottom of the spare wheel well is not ideal! That's the one the idiots who installed the tow bar on my car chose to use ...

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Be aware that there is a standard wiring pattern that is dependent on what size and type of trailer electrical connector that you use. I recommend that you use the type that's common in your geographic area.
Once you have identified what type this is, I can direct you to a wiring diagram for that type.